December 23, 2007

finally!

ah!!

now the last term here! will miss this place probably, at least will remember that this is where i set out to do what i will be doing in  about 6 months from now..

got some shocks already though, got to see the NITIE prof and boy is he mad! a monologue for and hour and fifteen minutes?!! too much hai yaar..

the Service Marketing prof seems to be a bit of a taskmaster..sligthly boring in the way he delivers the lecture..  but the case we did today was interesting.. was about NetFlix and how and why it developed its business model to the way it is today.. was an eyeopener.. plenty of ideas for use in other online implementations (need to remember this)

December 08, 2007

the term before last

only the last paper of the exam to go.. then it is a much-needed break and then its back for the last term here...

one of the 'globe' papers actually.. meaning thereby that it is rumoured that the marks in the paper are given on the basis of the weight of the answer sheet after weighing on a scale (and i mean literal weighing, like in grams! yes! )

js kidding :P

i guess things are going to change now that work life finally is drawing nearer, and i probably have very little idea of the daily tensions which are going to result from it so... lemme enjoy my time here while i can! will brave it anyhow as i have, till now.

December 06, 2007

Tired of being an atheist

God! are you listening? am tired of being an atheist! help me realise your existence, show me the light! help me understand all that is happening around me! please !


man, you must have been taken aback by what is written above, was just a rant, will pass, don't you worry.

funny how the world works, sometimes you feel you understand someone (girls obviously) but then... sigh :(

should i stop worrying and let them handle the problems? but what does that make of me? an indifferent beast? or does that make me a peacemaker? would i give an arm and a leg for the latter!!

have to think about that...

probably the next drama is going to unfold in a while now... awaiting that.

Fun Fact - I

http://support.microsoft.com//default.aspx?scid=kb;en-us;261186

November 28, 2007

Random websites - I

http://www.rinkworks.com/said/kidlove.shtml

June 21, 2007

irreverence

shit, never realised i would be missing the bangalore weather so much and so soon. although the food was shitty, smells from the sewer everywhere, bloody traffic, the weather was like heaven! aah! those cool breezes in the evenings, rains at night... (sigh!)

and now its hot-yellow-heat, barren landscapes and insects. lucknow is undoubtedly the last of the places i would prefer to stay in. no city to speak of since there are no traffic lights in the entire 'city' (i prefer to call it a town).

but yes, coming back to the course here and starting out on a world of discovery with the profs here is again what keeps me up. this is now the 2nd year here and lots more opportunities exist to explore any area you want to. i think this is the reason why the IIMs and the IITs produce varied personalities. Did you know our insti produced the wife of Kunal Ganjawala(that Murder singer? ) Rocky (our legendary prof here) refers to her choice of profession as the one that made him the proudest leaving other well-established guys in McKinsey and the likes..

this place offers you that platform from where you can look out into the world and find out a corner you want to reach out to. and it helps you reach there.

that reminds me, i need to reach out to that reading for the class at 2 o'clock this afternoon. so long.

May 16, 2007

guide to autorickshaw-travel @Bangalore

hmm.. so here it is guys, those of you who are stepping into Bangalore for the first time and hoping to enjoy the weather here need to learn the following points before you touchdown here:

Basics

  • a running autorickshaw is ALWAYS cheaper. (kidstuff)
  • go and learn poisson distribution to keep yourself occupied while waiting and getting frustrated at the lack of autos (serious)
  • be prepared.. for anything.

Bangalore specials

  • NEVER ask the driver "how much?" Just get on if he is willing to go without talking about the fare upfront. (essential)
  • learn the name of some place midway from your destination. (helps when he asks which route to take, because he will be running on meter and will take you on an all-expense-paid-by-you-trip around Bangalore.
  • be prepared for BAD traffic. (Bangalore is the worst i have seen. ever.)
  • you dont need anything to keep you occupied because your heart will be pumping wildly looking at the rate that the meters in the autos run at, so travel light.
  • hold on for dear life, the brakes are rumoured to wear out the fastest in this city.
  • read this guide from the top again and memorize it.if need help then contact the author by a comment or mail and he would be ready to help you.

Great! so now, happy shopping!!

May 15, 2007

@Bangalore!!!

in the city of gardens this past month, and it has been swell weather throughout! showers now and then and the cool breeze makes you go wow! and then the feeling crashes down when its dinner time. you go out, get a look at the menu, and pick something. and trust me, it never will come out the way you imagined it would be.
the first night i had hunted around for some chinese and got a decent meal at a good restaurant. then the next day i ventured out to find out some cheaper alternatives. and we ordered a chicken hyderabadi. i was expecting something red and spicy hot. and then, out it comes and it is... you guessed wrong, it was GREEN! a green chicken dish, talk about a healthy non-veg meal!
next day we went for an even cheaper option. a southie restaurant called swadisht. i went in and picked out the punjabi thali, a reasonable option for 40 bucks (it offered ice-cream as dessert.) and then it comes out and i have to think back to what my knowledge of punjabi cuisine was all about. the thali has a f^@&!#$ bowl of curd-rice!
now i forgot to mention that i used to consider myself as very adaptable to any cuisine, until now that is. so now i resolved to get the hang of it and next day ordered a southie thali!! it was good actually.
and that was how i discovered. when in the south, eat south.

March 06, 2007

blogging for blogging;s sake

ever wonder how you can always find a blog better written and worded than yours? its not the same with a book. Reasons could be that since not everyone can get a book published so we dont compare it so hard with what we could have come up with. Precisely the issue with blogs.

I know there will be criticisms of this but blogs were intended for instant composing, not as a well-threaded document of the times. Its evolution was as a tool whereby the individual could jot down random thoughts while he would be surfing the net.

we would have to agree that it has now developed into an art form now. with well thought-out pieces which make us go "wow !"

well, as it goes. interesting!.

February 16, 2007

my leader type: (??!!)


professional hazards - I

(19 August 1999, Seville, Spain) A professional French pickpocket used astoundingly poor judgment when selecting his most recent victim at the Seville Airport. The thief, who specializes in international events that attract crowds of visitors, thought he was in his element when he circled a group of young men and chose his prey. Little did he realize that he was dipping into the bag of Larry Wade, champion 110-meter hurdler for the US Athletic team. He was also spotted by Maurice Green, the fastest sprinter on Earth, capable of running 100 meters in 9.79 seconds. The two athletes quickly chased down the thief despite his hefty head start. The pickpocket attempted to pretend that he was just an innocent French tourist, but the entire episode was captured on film by a Spanish television crew that had been interviewing Mr. Greene at the time. “He chose the wrong man,” deadpanned a spokesman for the Civil Guard.

February 11, 2007

In Mars We Trust

In Mars We Trust

February 03, 2007

The Power of Two

© The Times of India, Feb 2, 2007

In business, collaboration makes better sense

By ARUN MAIRA

The ‘last mile’ challenges sellers of products and services in rural India. Customers are widely dispersed, infrastructure to reach them is inadequate, and therefore profits are elusive. A way out for businesses, explained in CII’s report on ‘Winning by Inclusion’, is to combine capabilities and share infrastructure in the last mile thus reducing investments and costs.

The World Bank, too, has examined delivery of public services for education, healthcare and sanitation to the poor in rural as well as urban India. It contrasts examples of effective and low-cost delivery with the myriad examples of wasteful and often useless schemes. It points out that successful projects generally have two characteristics. They involve the local community in planning and managing the service. And very often, they are collaborative ventures between government, NGOs, businesses and the community. The lesson for those who want to do good and also for those who want to make profits is that going it alone is costly and ineffective.

While successful examples provide valuable insights, they are too few and far between. The challenge is to spread the models and scale up benefits. The default solution almost always is to impose an overall authority and enforce ideas top down. Thus an insight from successful examples is smothered — collaboration on the ground between many agencies working together as partners produces results, not a single agency acting on its own. Why then do we instinctively revert to a ‘dominator’ model of organisation to get something done, even in the face of economic logic and empirical evidence that suggests we need partnerships?

Social scientist Riane Eisler gives an intriguing explanation. In her analysis of the evolution of culture and ideas over 10,000 years of human history, she points out that two opposing ideas of social organisation have contended with each other at various times. One is the idea of partnerships and equality, principally among the two sexes. Whenever this model has prevailed, there has been greater peace and an effervescence of creativity. The other idea, more prevalent, is domination by hierarchies with a single leader, invariably male, at the top. The dominator model, she explains, is intolerant of opposition. It is also very effective for the organisation of war. Dominant organisations use the power of the word (propagating their own ideas and banning opposing ideas as heresies) as well as, in the extreme, the power of the sword (of violent punishment) to prevail. The partnership model is always a threat to those in power because it brings others up to their level to share the power that they have so far enjoyed. Eisler concentrates on western civilisation, in which she tracks these aggressive forces in the growth of the Christian church, ostensibly founded to propagate the ideas of a man who brought the message of love, compassion, and of ‘turning the other cheek’. However, the dominator model, of top-down authority intolerant of opposition, is also evident in many eastern societies and in international relations.

This model produces results, but not in all contexts. When problems are systemic, when there are many interacting forces with reinforcing and balancing effects amongst them, when many actors must collaborate to understand the system of which they are all a part and cooperate in its improvement, partnerships are necessary. The dominator model could win the battle against Saddam, but it cannot impose peace in Iraq.

In an increasingly interconnected world with several challenges, such as saving the environment, reducing poverty and eradicating violence, cooperation is necessary across national boundaries. Collaboration is also required locally, within countries, to produce results on the ground.

However, the tool-kits of leaders and managers are not equipped for these challenges. Concepts of organisation and management taught in government, army and business schools teach managers how to be more effective within the dominator model. The emphasis is on teaching strategies and skills for competition and control, rather than strategies and skills for collaboration and co-creation. No wonder Alexander the Great’s Art of Strategy and Sun Tzu’s Art of War are management bestsellers.

We cannot carry on in this way. We need a new curriculum of leadership and management with new concepts and texts. What this will require is eloquently explained by Dee Hock, the founder of Visa — the credit card network that revolutionised financial services in the 1960s. Technology was an enabler for Visa’s success, but the breakthrough, Hock says, was in the governance model of an enterprise without a single owner that requires hundreds of banks and millions of merchants all over the world to cooperate to maintain its integrity. Reflecting on the state of the world today, Hock says that our intractable societal problems are caused by an institutional failure: “At the bottom, it is a wrong concept of organisation and leadership based on a false metaphor with which we must deal. Until we do, the problems that crush the young and make grown people cry will grow progressively worse”. The false metaphor is domination and top-down control, whereas the new dawn will come with partnerships, even amongst those considered unequal — rich and poor people, backward and developed nations, men and women.

The writer is with the Boston Consulting Group.

January 07, 2007

The Past and the Future

isn't it uncanny when the wishes of parents run contrary to their own wishes? (confusing wording of the sentence i would say :P ) or put in a better way, their hopes of seeing their children happy might instead restrict their vision to what 'they' think of as good for their children.

i will give you an illustration. Parent A wants his son to stay at home and manage the family business, he looks forward to being able to guide his son. There's a catch however-

Situation 1:
Let's say the son wants nothing to do with the family business (as of now) and wants to explore some options (conveniently nontraditional options). Now the parents want to see him happy and not make mistakes which he might regret, but hey, if the guy does not 'make' the mistake, won't he keep thinking HIS ENTIRE LIFE about what could have been? The point is that once he has started thinking for himself, he will be having desires, a liking for the uncharted territory. Do you give him the chance?

Situation 2:
To pre-empt the above situation, this time the parents do not give the son exposure to the world outside, keeping him 'domesticated'. Ok the son will be happy, but is it not a trade-off of the potential he had and the knowledge he could have gained outside? More importantly, are the parents keeping their son happy or are they keeping themselves happy?

Their can be no conclusion from this thought but 'freedom'. Never has a cage kept a bird happy. No amount of good food, tender loving care, will be enough to satisfy his curiosity of the world outside. No amount of reasoning that there are predators outside will quell his want for an opportunity to venture outside JUST THIS ONCE.
You have to let go, for his own good.

Killing the art of Poetry - II

Eager minds, bright new faces,
Know nothing about the coming race.
Where colleagues are competitors
Lecturers their accomplices,
Books their weapons and conceit everywhere.

Feeble minds may balk,
Some leaving the job mid-way,
Still some will battle on,
With hopes of going further on.

A few wise old men,
In the midst of all this,
Quietly hold their own and fight,
Not against any enemy but someone within.
They have been through hell and are trying to survive,
Where others have given up and died,
They go on, cherishing unfulfilled dreams,
Unspoken, and secret desires of the heart.

The young don’t know, they don’t care,
There’ll always be people who dare,
This is the way of the world.
Not everyone has to be brash and bold,
In the end, we all are the same,
Is it not, even if we don’t have fame?

Killing the art of Poetry - I

Music is what I hear,
When it should have been silence,
Even when no one is near,
Time immemorial whence

Why, thought I, should I have to think,
Things that should have been out in a blink.

And I remember what brought upon this,
Which reminds me of all the things I miss,
Things go on, they always do.

Everyone meets other people, me and you too,
And so thinking, I get down to rest,
Knowing I’ll never get used to this mess.

fact/fiction undersigned by 'Signature' :P

have heard a lot about the Beatle's LSD experiments and the rousing success its 'by-product' the " Sgt. Peppers Lonely Hearts Club Band" received, so decided that i should try a little one of my own, albeit, fueled by a lesser quantitiy of 'Signature'.

missing dear friends is the first emotion i felt, long lost friends resurfaced in the inner recesses. Could-have-been relationships sprung possibilities in my mind (not necessarily the platonic kind, cos i have committed to the girl of my dreams already and there is no other like her), lost friendships, potential business partners and ready benefactors.

for people who know me, please leave a comment if you find anything thought-provoking here, it will be greatly appreciated. Have decided to open up my life gradually from the coccoon i have restricted myself to, and hope it will be for my betterment.

The issue here is about getting out of one's comfort zone. For those not familiar with the term, it means sticking with something you are familiar with, rather than trying out the unknown. Getting out of it is one of the most enlightening experiences you could get. Thought that flock of hair looks cool on you? SHAVE THAT OFF!! My friend Rajoy did it here and i sure would have envied the attention he is getting if i had not already found the girl of my dreams. She is the reason i do what i do, she is the reason i live, and she is everything that makes my life worth living. I call myself an atheist barring the religion that is her. People might call it 'blind' love, i call it a love that does not need eyes to see it, only the heart to feel it. I love her too much.